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First times

Negotiating, meeting, playing and coming down: the four conversations every first scene needs.

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    Two coffees and a closed black notebook on a dark table, seen from above

    Safety & consent · 4 min read

    Negotiating a scene: a checklist you will actually use

    Limits, safe words, health, substances and who's driving home. The short talk that makes the next few hours better

    The Real Kink Men team · Oct 2

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    A narrow city street at night, wet pavement reflecting shop lights

    Safety & consent · 4 min read

    Meeting a man from the site: the safety checkup, step by step

    Two minutes in Settings, then the habits experienced guys keep for a first meet. Your location, who can reach you, and how to leave

    The Real Kink Men team · Oct 14