Events on RealKinkMen
Every leather weekend. Every man going.
IML, MAL, Folsom and the bar night down the street, all in one calendar, with the men you know already on the list. 100 events in the next twelve months.
Example
Plan the whole weekend
Say which days you're there and pick the parties, contests and markets you're going to. Add it all to your calendar in one tap.
See who's going
Men you follow come first, then men from your city. Get to know them before you land.
Here now
On the day, we offer it by notification. Turn it on and the men going can see you are there.
Every year, kept
Past years stay up with photos from the organisers and from men who went.
● Here now
Walk into IML and see who's in the building.
For the length of the weekend, the men who are there can see each other: who's arrived, who's online, and who you've been talking to for months. Then it switches itself off.
- 8:00 amA notification the morning you arrive“IML starts today. Turn on Here now?” Timed from the dates you gave, not ours.
- TapTurn it on from the notificationNo need to open the app. Change your mind any time on the event page.
- All weekendSee who's here and message themMen you follow first. Online dots are live. Your Radar gets an “At IML” lens.
- Monday nightIt switches itself offNothing is kept about where you were. The archive only remembers that you went.
Inside every event
Radar and Circles already know about your events
- “At IML” lens. During the event, one chip narrows Radar to the men who are here now. Your usual filters still work.
- Going-to badges. In the weeks before, tiles show when you're both going. An easy opener.
- A circle for the big weekends. Room shares, rides, “who's flying in from Denver”. It stays between years.
- Photos after. What's posted from the weekend can go into that year's archive.
You decide who sees you there
Here now is off until you turn it on, and only men going can see it.
Public event pages never show faces. You have to sign in to see who is going.
Private parties can show their address only to men going.
You can hide the events you are going to from your profile in Privacy settings.
For organisers
Your event is probably already here.
We've listed 100 of the year's big weekends. Claim yours to edit it, upload the official photos, message the men going, and set up next year in one click. It's free, and so is submitting a new one.
- 1Tap “Are you the organizer?”on your event or its series page.
- 2We check and hand it overusually within a day.
- 3It's yoursedits, photos, messages to the men going, next year's edition.
Questions
Is my RSVP public?
Other members can see you are going. Visitors who are not signed in only see a count, never faces.
Who sees me when Here now is on?
Only other men going to the same event, and only until it ends.
Can I list a private party?
Yes. Choose to show the address only to men going, and leave the page off the public web.
How do I claim an event?
Open it and tap “Are you the organizer?”. The team checks and hands it over.
Does it cost anything?
No. Going, submitting and running events are free.